top of page

Partner Support

Coaching and community for women healing from betrayal.

At Room to Heal, we understand first hand the immense pain of betrayal by a partner addicted to falling in love, having affairs and using pornography. We can guide you along the path to healing, so that you'll be okay regardless of whether he gets healthy.


We have a partner-first approach. That means, with your permission, our coaches will collaborate regularly and facilitate couples connection sessions. These meetings are not couples therapy, but a way for you to learn about his recovery plan and have a safe space to express your boundaries and expectations. In early recovery, many men retreat into shame and his coach can help him reframe what he hears and take the feedback constructively.

Room to Heal provides low-cost 1:1 betrayal trauma recovery coaching, couples connection sessions and support groups for the partners of our residents. We make it as affordable as possible because we want you to experience the miracles that are possible when a foundation of safety and solid communication is established during your time apart.

The benefits of intentional time apart

Prevents further trauma - stops gaslighting, reduces trickle truths

Forces you to let him take ownership of his sobriety

Allows you to see true change

Individual Coaching

Woman Having Counselling Session.jpg

Our female recovery coaches have also experienced betrayal and are equipped with the tools and training to help you find safety, work through the stages of anger and grief.


Coaching can be virtual for anyone in the US or in-person in the Charlotte, NC area. 

Group Facilatation

Women Female Feminism Lady Madam Friends Concept.jpg

One of the best things you can do is surround yourself with supportive women who understand your pain and can support you through this journey.


We've brought on an expert group facilitator, Laura Jenkins, to run a weekly, virtual partner group. This will be a small, intimate group with 4-6 participants.

Couples Work

side view of smiling man and woman in white t-shirts and blue jeans sitting on chairs with

One of the things that makes our practice unique is that our coaches are trained in ERCEM (Early Recovery Couples Empathy Model) and can work as team for the benefit of your relational healing. 

We can hold joint couples connection sessions with both coaches to help you express your boundaries and needs. We can also help you practice new communication skills.


Here's what other women in your situation had to say about working with Room to Heal.

After discovering my husband’s affair, porn addiction and sex addiction, I was distraught and traumatized. We became trapped in a toxic cycle of fighting, and he needed help and guidance to get his issues under control. After he came home from inpatient treatment, he still had a lot of work to do, and I needed space away from him so I could focus on my own therapy and healing journey as a betrayed wife. I didn’t feel comfortable with the idea of him staying alone in a hotel, and we weren’t ready to make a commitment to separating and him moving into his own apartment. We heard about Room To Heal from our CSAT therapists. We took a chance and my husband moved in to Room To Heal to continue his recovery while giving me my own space to focus on myself. Knowing that he was living in a safe, structured, sober environment gave me the peace of mind to be able to relax and work on myself and my own healing journey. Meanwhile, he was able to focus on his individual recovery and therapy while building healthy habits. Like the name says, it truly does give both the addict and the partner “Room To Heal” and a safe place to grow and recover from the trauma of sexual addiction and betrayal. Andrew and Lisa truly want to help others and have been invaluable resources during this scary, tumultuous time in our lives. 


Meet the Team

When it comes to walking through betrayal trauma, it's important to have a supportive and experienced team by your side. At Room to Heal, LLC., our compassionate staff is committed to helping each individual achieve their recovery goals.

Book Your Free Consultation

Already had your free consult?

bottom of page