Porn and Sex Addiction Sober Living
Currently Paused — Relaunching in 2026
Room to Heal is a Level II recovery residence for men seeking freedom from pornography addiction, sexual addiction, and other unwanted sexual behaviors.
Our mission is to provide a safe, structured, and accountable home environment where men rebuild integrity, practice honesty, and form habits that support lasting change.
While our residential program is temporarily on pause, our purpose remains the same: to create environments where men live out recovery through structure, community, and transparency.
Community
Sex addiction is considered by most professionals to be an intimacy disorder. Our program is effective because we provide the right environment for men to grow in their intimacy, honestly and authenticity. Many of our past residents developed strong friendships for the first time in their lives while living at Room to Heal.
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Living with other men who have made similar mistakes and experience the same struggles is validating and comforting, making it easier to be vulnerable and honest.
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There are men in the house at all stages of recovery who can model empathy, honesty and authenticity.
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Seeing your imperfections manifested in others helps you get real about your own faults.
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Living with 6 other men naturally produces friction, which is another good opportunity to get honest with feelings and learn to communicate needs.
Accountability
A live-in House Leader provides on-site supervision, leads nightly check-ins, and models honesty and consistency. Residents follow clear expectations—curfews, meeting attendance, and respectful communication—that create safety and stability in the home.
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Our technology safeguards reinforce transparency: Covenant Eyes monitors all devices, phones are turned in nightly, laptops are restricted to approved use, and Life360 GPS tracking ensures location accountability.
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Together, these systems replace secrecy with structure and support men in rebuilding integrity one decision at a time.
12-Step
Residents are required to get involved in the 12-step community
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Attend three meetings per week. At least two of which should be in person.
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Find a sponsor who can hold you accountable and help you work the steps.
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Read the SAA Green Book to better understand the reason behind the work.
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Establish a list of men from the meetings to call and check in with regularly.
Self-Reflection
We encourage residents to pray, meditate and journal as a means to begin learning to understand your thoughts, feelings and emotions. When you're awareness grows, you'll be better able to protect your sobriety and make more thoughtful decisions.
Residents need to meet and/or agree to these standards in order to live at Room to Heal.
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Male
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18 years or older
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Medically and psychologically stable
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Follow the behavior standards of Room to Heal
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Agree to random drug and alcohol screenings
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Attend three 12-step meetings per week
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Agree to attend most group-discussion sessions
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Ready to submit to our program of recovery